When the world first went home, many of us assumed it was temporary. We made kitchen desks out of cutting boards, created Team/Zoom corners in spare rooms, and learned to live through our screens. But years later, remote and hybrid work have evolved from a crisis response into a cultural phenomenon — a living experiment in trust, autonomy, and human energy.
Now, as some governments and organizations are mandating a return to office, we find ourselves at an inflection point: what have we learned about how we work, lead, and live? What are the true impacts — not just on productivity, but on people?
This is an invitation to step back and reflect on the deeper lessons of this experiment in working apart, and what they reveal about the human experience of work itself.
1. The Great Recalibration
Remote and hybrid work transformed the structure of daily life. Commutes vanished, wardrobes relaxed, and time took on a new rhythm. For many, this was a liberation. Flexibility allowed parents to see their children off to school, eliminated hours of travel, and gave quiet thinkers the conditions for deep focus.
A 2023 Pew Research study found that 71% of U.S. employees who could work remotely chose to do so at least part of the time, citing better balance, fewer distractions, and improved well-being. Similar patterns appeared globally: hybrid workers consistently reported higher satisfaction, stronger retention, and lower burnout.
But this freedom also came with shadows. The same dissolution of boundaries that once felt freeing began to blur life and work. Without the physical transition of leaving home, some found themselves perpetually half-working and half-living. Days stretched, evenings dissolved into emails, and the “third space” — the commute, the coffee shop, the decompression between roles — disappeared.
2. What the Research Reveals
The past few years have produced a remarkable body of research. While not all findings align, a broad consensus is emerging:
- Hybrid works — often better than expected.
Studies from Stanford University and others found that hybrid workers are as productive (and often more so) than those in the office full-time. Quit rates dropped by up to one-third, and satisfaction rose. - Fully remote work is more complex.
For roles requiring collaboration, creativity, or mentorship, full-time remote work sometimes showed declines in innovation and weaker informal learning. However, for administrative or task-based work, fully remote often delivered equal or greater productivity. - Well-being improved — up to a point.
People reported better health metrics, more sleep, and greater happiness when given flexibility. But when remote work became fully immersive — with little in-person contact — loneliness and digital fatigue emerged. - Personality and environment matter.
Extroverts often felt drained by isolation, while introverts thrived on focus and autonomy. Those with structured routines — morning walks, designated workspaces, even the ritual of “getting dressed for work” — tended to fare better than those whose days blurred without boundaries. - Mentorship and belonging need re-engineering.
Younger employees, particularly those entering the workforce during or after the pandemic, report weaker social ties, limited informal learning, and a diminished sense of belonging. One Canadian mental health survey noted rising rates of lethargy, anxiety, and antidepressant use among younger remote workers who had never experienced in-office work. Recently I had the opportunity to meet with a group of young people whose only experience with work so far was full-time remote, and they reinforced these findings.
3. The Psychology of Work: Structure, Energy, and Self-Awareness
Remote work amplified a timeless truth: know yourself.
Through my work coaching leaders and teams, I’ve seen that success in hybrid and remote settings often depends less on policy and more on self-awareness — knowing where you draw your energy, how you sustain focus, and what rhythms support your best work.
Some people need the social hum of others to feel alive; solitude drains them. Others come alive in quiet space, able to think, create, and restore. Some crave routine — the small ritual of going out for coffee before settling into focused work. Others need freedom from structure to find their flow.
The difference often lies in the intentionality of how we replace what was once automatic.
When you no longer commute, you must consciously build transitions into your day.
When your office is also your kitchen, you must actively protect the boundary between presence and distraction.
And when your colleagues exist mostly in pixels, you must create moments of connection that nourish the soul of work — not just its mechanics.
4. Why Some Thrive and Others Struggle
Remote work magnifies our habits — the productive and the non-productive alike.
Those with clear personal boundaries, supportive home environments, and intrinsic motivation often thrive. Those who rely on external cues — social interaction, structured time, visible accountability — can find themselves adrift.
The key insight is not that one style is better, but that human diversity matters.
We are not designed the same way, and so our work patterns shouldn’t be either. Hybrid models offer a bridge between solitude and social energy, allowing each person to calibrate the mix that sustains their well-being and performance.
5. The Leadership Dimension: From Control to Trust
The great shift to hybrid has also redefined what it means to lead.
Leaders once measured engagement by presence — who was in the meeting room, who stayed late, who appeared busy. Now, leadership must evolve toward trust, clarity, and connection.
Hybrid and remote work expose the gaps in relational leadership. If engagement feels flat or culture frays, the answer isn’t always more office days — it’s more intentional connection.
Successful hybrid leaders:
- Create rituals of togetherness — weekly team check-ins, shared learning moments, cross-functional huddles.
- Model psychological safety — encouraging openness and transparency.
- Clarify expectations around outcomes, not hours.
- Notice and nurture — checking in not just on progress, but on people.
In hybrid teams I’ve worked with, leaders who naturally enjoy connection and bring authentic energy to their interactions lift the entire system. Their presence — whether virtual or physical — creates belonging.
6. The Government Push to Return: Control, Culture, or Civic Duty?
As research on hybrid success continues to accumulate, some governments — including Canada’s — have begun mandating a return to the office.
The Government of Canada now requires most public servants to work on-site at least three days per week, and executives four, citing “consistent in-person interactions,” culture, mentorship, and collaboration as reasons for the policy. At the provincial level, Ontario’s government announced a full-time return for public service employees by early 2026, framing it as essential to “competitiveness, resilience, and a strong provincial economy.”
There’s also a civic layer: public sector workers populate downtown cores. When those offices sit empty, local economies suffer — restaurants, shops, transit systems, even the symbolic vitality of a city’s centre.
But many employees and observers question whether these mandates reflect evidence or nostalgia. Studies consistently show that forced returns risk eroding trust and morale. Unions argue that one-size-fits-all policies ignore role differences, personal circumstances, and proven remote productivity.
From my vantage point, this push often reveals a deeper tension between control and trust. When work became invisible — dispersed across homes and time zones — leaders lost the comfort of proximity. The instinctive response was to bring people back where they could be seen.
Yet true accountability isn’t built through visibility. It’s built through clarity of purpose, shared goals, and relational trust. The real challenge — for government and organizations alike — is not whether people are in the office, but whether they are engaged, connected, and contributing meaningfully wherever they are.
7. Lessons for a More Effective Hybrid Future
What can we take forward from these years of experiment and adjustment?
Design for rhythm, not rigidity.
Create predictable structures — weekly in-office anchor days, virtual collaboration windows — balanced with flexibility for deep work and life’s realities.
Re-engineer mentorship and connection.
Pair new hires with mentors, use technology for informal networking, and gather in person for learning and team building rather than routine meetings.
Prioritize outcomes and trust.
Measure contribution, not chair time. Communicate goals clearly, and celebrate shared achievements.
Protect boundaries and well-being.
Encourage employees to “start and stop” their day with intention. Normalize breaks from screens. Model balance at the top.
Equip leaders for hybrid fluency.
Teach leaders to read energy remotely, facilitate inclusive meetings, and ensure remote team members have equal voice and visibility.
Keep listening and evolving.
Hybrid is not a fixed destination. Organizations that thrive will treat it as an ongoing experiment — one that requires feedback, empathy, and curiosity.
8. The Human Workscape Ahead
The question is no longer can we work remotely? We’ve proven we can.
The deeper inquiry is how do we design work that supports human flourishing?
We are learning that presence is not only physical — it is relational, psychological, and energetic. Whether in an office tower, a home studio, or a café, what matters most is the quality of attention we bring — to the work, to each other, and to ourselves.
The future of work will belong not to those who mandate presence, but to those who cultivate connection.
Not to those who measure hours, but to those who measure meaning.
Not to those who tighten control, but to those who build trust.
The pandemic forced us apart. The years since have asked us to find our way back — not necessarily to the same spaces, but to a new understanding of what it means to work together.
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